They are constantly on guard for something to go wrong and checking a dating site for the guy they are dating is part of their ritual. When a man is committed to you he is committed to contributing to your happiness as well.
It seems that you may have even gone for years without dating each other.
There are some questions that I want you to ask yourself before you decide whether or not you say anything to your boyfriend: Spend some time and figure out why you are in this relationship, what you want out of the relationship, and how you feel about this specific situation before you talk to your boyfriend.
A woman has just realized that her boyfriend has been active on online dating sites.
She is wondering if this is alright, and if she should address him.
Doesn’t mean you don’t want to see her, just means you’re looking to trade up. You’ll wish her the best of luck in her search and you’ll both move on to greener pastures. There are two possible scenarios: 1) she reciprocates in kind, and you become her boyfriend, and 2) she backs away, and you move on. To sum up, the reason her profile is still up is basically one of the below: 1) She’s playing it cool and trying not to act needy. Better to get an answer now than to wait another two months to find out where you stand.
You have different needs, different goals, different perceptions – no reason for anyone to get hurt. And if you’re unsure of where you stand, the best solution is to bring this to the surface in a confident way. No need to have an uncomfortable “Why is your profile up after two months? She’s waiting for you to make a commitment to be a boyfriend. Currently, this female happens to be seeing someone and in the exact same position.
The first thing here for you to consider before you start to analyze this to death is what made you check the dating site in the first place?
In most cases it’s our gut that gives us a feeling that something may be off. In other cases, there are some women that just don’t trust a man in general.
I don’t care what he tells you or what excuse he gives.
Unless he is a complete idiot, he is aware this would not make you happy.
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