If he talks about a great new restaurant he discovered, but doesn't add, "We should go there sometime"—and maybe he just says "I go there a lot"—then he's not interested in sharing things with you.Plus: "Guys who are into girls want to explore with them—not sit on the couch on every date," says Mike.7.
He doesn't do something sweet for you at least once a week.
That doesn't mean he's buying you a dozen roses but he should have said or done something that made you go "Aw! He doesn't ask questions about your family and friends.9.
Being exclusive gives you the ability to be your own person at your own pace but also gives you someone to share the ride with.
Being exclusive is a simpler term for a test drive.
He doesn't initiate at least 80% of the things you do together. "When I don't like a girl, the 80% drops significantly. I'll get off the phone and never close the conversation with a set of plans." Note that it doesn't have to be exact plans, but it should at least be, "Let's hang out later this week and we'll do dinner. He doesn't remember your one month anniversary.11.
He hasn't posted a picture of you together on Facebook within two months of the first date. But the message here is, if you want a relationship with someone and he's acting out the above list, move on.
While there should still be rules and regulations to follow, it is emotionally unrewarding compared to the aforementioned dating alternatives.
This is also a great way to get out of the friend-zone.
But when I really like someone, no matter what I'm generally comfortable doing, I'll at least put my arm around her and give her a kiss on the cheek."6.